Would you have any recommendation for a person who is deciding whether or not to have kids? I know it’s very personal, but somehow the trick of “just ask yourself - is that really what you want to do” isn’t working.

ur admirer.

Two days ago, one of my friends linked me over to your site with a warning that I probably wouldn’t like it. At first I agreed, thinking that you seemed rather unpleasant.

Then I started actually /reading/. By yesterday night, I had read every single post you had ever made on that site, and I’m sure I’m going to stay a long time watcher.

I didn’t just go through the trouble of finding this site to tell you that you can be liked after all, though. I’ve read enough to know you probably don’t care. xD

The week before and during the time I found your site is a week I hope will remain the worst bunch of days of my life. I was not just incapable of being happy, but I was fully set on being miserable and staying that way forever. Your site got me to laugh my way out of that, though, and I remembered how I used to care about a lot of things that I had been ignoring for months.

Long story short (I bet you’re tired of reading my rambles by now, huh?), my problems are not gone and that particular mistake will never be solved, but your words forced some great perspective on me.

I know it’s not like you put this site up for me or anything, but I wanted to make sure I found a way to say thank you. Your rambles are worth far more than you ever give yourself credit for.

Whoever you are, keep on being you.

Though it’s likely been said many times: You are a gifted writer.

Your pieces are variously direct, funny, observant, insightful, shoot-from-the-hip, genuine, and/or refreshingly fearless of political correctness. From reckless to wise, with more toward the wise.

Your story of maternal abuse deserves a Pulitzer. Expanded to a book, it could sell millions. So heartbreaking, so powerful.

Keep up the good work.

Learned of your site (not sure how) and read it. It almost makes me want to find out how to do a blog, etc. Actually it does, just not sure how. I have enjoyed your writing, and it certainly makes me think. I would almost be your male counterpart, if I was radically more successful economically. I never realized before that brutally honest, self indulgent reflection was a commodity. Thats not an insult, I hope thats the truth.

The gist of this is ‘How do I Start Doing this Too?’. Lots of the things on the website are worth commenting on. If I give them the consideration and thought they deserve, then multiply that by my ‘fuck around in circles’ factor, I might as well go into business for myself.

Any help is appreciated.

Thank you.

I’ve linked your blog on mine, I hope that’s alright. If not, too bad, because it’s mine and I can do that! Neener neener. Somehow I don’t think you’ll mind.

I could say more, but we all know how you feel about internet dick-sucking.

Regards,

FoK

she was born with out a face!

no really, i’m not making that up. her toug just sort of hangs out and her eyes bulge and i don’t know if she’s mentally astute or, um, special but she can’t hear properly, since she has no freaking skull and she sinuses sre messed and she can’t eat except through tubes…ahh and she’s something to look at

PREVENTING MENPAUSE
http://www.preventingmenopause.com/
i want to know what V thinks of preventing it, anyone should take a look if they want because apperently doctors haven’t studied it since the 1940s and even then they didn’t use the right hormons…i sorta want to keep my figure forever, so i’m all for assuming i don’t get a tumor or anything like that, i am too lazy to find V’s email but i like her site…sometimes