VA: Why Rockstar Mommy’s Husband Spent Mother’s Day Boffing His Secretary
May 24th, 2007
(24 votes, average: 2.83 out of 5)
Loading ...It’s actually quite fun to watch her empty little mind vainly attempt to string together mildly coherent sentences, but I simply have to call bullshit….only because it’s a pet peeve […]
Original post: Why Rockstar Mommy’s Husband Spent Mother’s Day Boffing His Secretary
Haha, man for someone who hates someone so much you just can’t resist but read her site and like to know everything about her! :D Wow. Look how cool you are! And all you can make fun of her is the stats thing! Haha, she never even said once that she got more stats than you. Your pretty stupid. Your so bad at insulting that you have to bring her kids into it! Your all class, wait now. Your pathetic.
Funny point about the picture everything day too. Even she really was self absorbed wouldn’t she be able to actually take at least 1 picture of herself a day? Nope she quit twice. Smooth. And picture do not make you self absorbed. It’s funny your so hooked on her it’s sad. You can’t get enough, it you really hated her you wouldn’t keep reading. Your a joke. :)
And what’s more attention whore-like than having to prove you get more hits! You just HAD to have EVERYONE KNOW!
Beastiality porn gets a lot of traffic as well, Violent cunt.
I think I know why you’re so miserable though, life must be hell when your dad can’t keep his cock out of your obese ass.
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Didn’t someone say the other day that even the stupidest human is smarter than an animal…
If that person is still out there, I’d like some clarification. Cuz I’m pretty stupid but this is fucking ridiculous.
You guys know this isn’t her site…right?
Well, she’s too much of a pansy to actually let people comment on her site, so this is where we go. :)
I hope ya’ll sleep well tonight.
VA– how about a weekly feature on retarded bloggers like “Rockstar Mommy?” I think it’s totally funny that people like that have blogs like the ones they have. And seriously? They need to be laughed at by people like me.
one of my fondest hopes is that someday i will be worthy of a VA spanking such as this. maybe when i get my real website back online (it was pretty lame, i was awful fulla myself back in the day) …
sigh. well a girl can dream, can’t she?
V’s tone when she writes about women is always hateful and antagonistic. This particular post sounds an awful lot like the writer of Heaven Nose (not to mention the stupid graphics with the word bubbles).
Say what you want, but making fun and posting pictures of someone’s child is stepping over the line. But that was the point, I’m sure. To get a reaction and start an all-out war.
I don’t agree with everything VA writes, but I don’t think I can say that I agree with everything ANYONE says or writes. She’s got a point, though. Admit it. I don’t know much about the other things she has written about anyone else, but this one is spot-on. My God. I’ve never read anything so shitty or boring as “Rockstar Mommy.” I have retinal burn. I have never read anything more whiny and egotistical in my life. “Look at me! I’m special! Pay attention to me!” RSM has to preface everything she writes with, “I’m not ____, but…” and then goes on to write exactly the opposite. She writes that she doesn’t want a gold star or whatever the hell she’d be happy with for popping out some kids and getting married, but then she bitches when she doesn’t get what she wants. Only what she wants will never be good enough becuase she LOVES to play the victim! 4 years of blogging? This shit? What I read was enough. If RSM doesn’t feel appreciated or special, that’s no one’s fault but her own. Nobody asked her to get married, have kids, stay married. If you hate your life, fucking do something about it.
My point is, she could be the shittiest, vitriolic person in the world, but she takes this round and kills it. Even if you hate her and don’t want to agree with one thing she writes because it would make you die inside, she’s right.
Wasn’t it VA herself who said that she almost got sued for the Sweetney stunt she pulled? But now she says she never scraped the surface of getting in trouble…
And when did RockStar Mommy say that her site was more popular than VA’s? She didn’t, nor did she imply it. VA posts her Alexa stats but conveniently leaves out the fact that her hits have dropped dramatically from when she was attacking mommy bloggers and their children. Isn’t that what was implied by RSM? That she’s bullying people who do better than average stat-wise so that she can get her stats back up?
::shrug:: It seems that VA can dish it out but can’t take it, even when it’s barely being given.
Posting about it once was mildly funny but posting twice in a row is just weird and obsessive. And making fun of kids shows more about VA than she’s aware of.
VA starts trouble, yet calls others the attention whores and drama queens. Hypocrite.
Oink oink?
Ugh. I’ll be glad when VA gets back to good stories or griping about general people or issues and being sometimes funny and often accurate instead of being needlessly just, well, mean and attacking some other blogger out there just doing their own thing. Rock Star was whiny, agreed, but so what? In any case, she handled the out of nowhere attack with grace and probably will get more traffic. Good on her. Meanwhile I’ll wait for VA to come up with something decent to read again because this crap actually makes me cringe. Must be getting old and mushy like rotting fruit.
I say it’s pretty boring whenever she/he/it/they talk about silly people having a blog.. I want my regular broadcasting back :(
It’s fun to see how these people always say something back at her, but not fun enough to devote a whole post to it.
You all take blogs and blogging and your little blogbuddies way too seriously. Fat kids NEED public ridicule to build up their character and whorish moms NEED to be made to feel insecure so they continue to be anorexic and donate their groceries to bums. You call it mean spirited, I call it public service.
“Say what you want, but making fun and posting pictures of someone’s child is stepping over the line.”
Mommybloggers post pictures of their children all the time. Together with so much detail of their lives that any pedofile can find out almost anything about them without raising any suspision. Not to mention later-in-life peer ridicule (think high-school), like V noted once. Compared to what their own moms do to their children by posting embarassing and personal stuff about them on the Internet, a stranger making fun of them hardly seems to be in any way an offence.
Still, V does seem to have an overly strong dispostion towards mommybloggers. I think it might be because she’s seeing their similarities with her own mother, in which case anyone in her shoes would probably react the same way.
WTF? It’s a blog, if you don’t like, you don’t read, simple as that. Seems pretty stupid to make fun of someone else’s blog. I use mine to keep my family updated and occasionally vent about shit, I don’t give a rat’s ass if anybody reads it or even likes it. On the other hand if you want to use your blog to make fun of other people’s blogs then you have every right to as well.. go ahead and be a dick, it’s your blog.
I thought the sweetneys kid and retarded guy line was a funny callback.
Aww look how cute…Rockstar Mommy had her little friend’s come to V’s comment site to defend her. Anyway, people really think this Rockstar Mommys is pretty?!?! What the hell is happening to the world? All that’s required to be considered attractive is blond hair? Her face is busted and that’s all there is to it. I love V’s blog even though I disagree with her opinions sometimes. You cannot deny that these mommy bloggers are annoying and self absorbed. I think letting Rockstar Mommy know that she needs to spend a little less time in the mirror and a little more time worrying about her daughter’s weight/health is a great thing. This woman is a classic example of why I support forced abortions on anyone with an IQ under 125.
Uh, you do realize that only about 5% of the total population has an IQ over 125, right?
Hey, let’s support genocide! That would fix everything!
Internet fighting. Keeping silly and trite people busy for nearly 20 years!
Maybe Rockstar Mommy will learn a little from this and maybe try and treat her husband a little better and spend more time with her children instead of staying online all day long. VA does raise a good point about people like this raising children. If things do not change then her daughter will grow up and treat some poor man like dirt and her son will be another spineless man taking orders from some drama queen with extremley low self esteem. It must be awful to live that way.
Why is Violent Acres defending herself and her ratings? If she had the balls she would like us all to believe she has, she wouldn’t care what a blogger she dislikes says to defend herself in an attack which VA initiated. And if she was as hard as she claims to be, why would she try to validate herself or her site with her Technorati ratings. Why would she care?
When VA didn’t get a rise out of her target, she stooped to making fun of a child as she’s done in the past. It’s very disappointing to see VA get so worked up over someone who she insists is so beneath her.
Who cares about Rock Star Mommy, her pictures, her marriage, or any other boring blogger out there? VA is showing that she does care. It looks more like envy than anything else. If you really don’t like someone, the best way to get them to go away is to ignore them. Common sense says giving her more traffic and attention will only keep her going. It’s creepy how much time VA invests in the people she doesn’t like.
jenny: IQ is not correlated with common sense. Also, every different test you take can give you a slightly different answer, usually up to 15 or even 20 points in difference.
NLS: She defended her ratings because RSM lied about them (or at least that’s what she thought). Nothing wrong with dispelling lies. For the rest, see my previous comment.
Bitch! What did you do to the stylesheets on your site? You went from GeoCities-style green puke with blue to web 2.0-style green puke with blue. Safari won’t even render your pages anymore, forcing me to issue additional key presses to suck up your vile!
I LIKED the old green puke with blue, Goddamnit. Whoever redesigned your site, kill IT. With gusto.
Oh V. I stopped reading after the first paragraph. Who cares what other bloggers are writing and what your stats are? Stop the mudslinging; it’s boring.
For the sake of accuracy, Rock Star Mommy didn’t lie about Violent Acres’ stats. She said that VA blasts popular Mom Blogs when her stats are dropping in order to boost them back up and to get attention. If you look at her Alexa rating, her stats have dropped 59% over 3 months. They are still high, but they have dropped a lot. No one lied about what site is more popular, all that was said was that VA was trying to stir up a shit storm to generate more traffic since flame wars notoriously spread all over the internet. Judging from how much attention this topic is getting, it worked.
It’s uninspired, unimaginative verbal vomit like this that keeps me from checking VA daily. In general I like what s/he writes, but when one of these have-nothing-to-talk-about-might-as-well-just-be-a-nausiating-bitch-for-no-reason kind of posts come up…. it takes me a few weeks to check back. Grow up, V. Making fun of the other kids on the “playground” happens when you’re still a child.
I thought it was hilarious. The internet is clogged with whining narcissists, and I think it’s perfectly appropriate to call out the spoiled brats of the world, of which there are far too many. The internet has given too many people a forum who abuse it to stroke their selfish, insecure egos, and women like this give every other woman who makes something of themselves or do somnething worthwhile a bad name.
RSM, if you want attention, do something attention worthy. Getting pats on the back for the sad way your sorry ass has been treated will never be enough, because in the end, there’s nothing to validate. You’re asking a bunch of strangers more pathetic than you to care what you watch on television or that your equally spoiled husband doesn’t recognize all the hard work you do cooking dinner and blowing noses. Poor you. Try dropping six kids while working in a rice paddy or sixteen hours in the factory that makes the cheap clothes you pose for your self-indulgent “everyone please look at me” pictures in. Then you can feel sorry for not getting some trinket to prove how worthy and beautiful and talented and cherished you are. Grow the fuck up and be grateful that you have two arms and two legs and healthy children and that you are one of the most priveleged people in the world. If you don’t like being criticized, prove you’re a goddamned human being and make yourself useful to the rest of humanity instead of wasting oxygen bitching and whining that some stranger made fun of you.
I was inspired.
http://www.myroidtypecomics.com/otherpics/rockstarmommy.jpg
I just started reading VA, so I can’t comment on how this fits into her larger narrative. But I LOVED her RSM post. I’m an intilligent, attractive, successful single man, and though I’d never tell her so myself, I feel EXACTLY the way that VA does about RSM and her ilk. These women are vapid and materialistic. They are deeply, irreversibly selfish, and as VA points out, they’re also woefully insecure.
And why shouldn’t they be? As much as RSM likes to believe that she’s Ms. Fabulous, the truth is that the best of the best men (like me, IMHO), have less than no use for the RSMs of this world. This, I think, is the root of RSM’s insecurity. She has no problem getting the attention of 90% of the straight male population- but the 10% that ignores her are the ones that every girl is after. Men with taste wouldn’t cross the street to save RSM’s life.
I’m not saying I don’t like a pretty face- but no woman is worth the baggage that RSM brings along. Thanks VA for pointing this out. Just because the criticism comes from a woman doesn’t mean that she’s jealous or spiteful. She’s just right.
That’s fucking hilarious Myroid.
I’ll bet 60% of people won’t get the joke. Fuck them.
FTN~ A. It’s funny that you have no sense of humor and take something that was so obviously meant to be a joke so literally…it’s obvious you’re not in the “5%”, geek.
B. It’s also funny that you place yourselves above everyone else by saying “Internet fighting. Keeping silly and trite people busy for nearly 20 years!” when, um….aren’t you here too?
You are all a bunch of idiots.
Umm, for proof the chick has uncontrollable self esteem issues look at her husband. Hopefully that travesty is smart enough to keep her from realizing he’s fucking goofy looking.
I still don’t get why V dislikes RSM enough to write a post about it. It’s such a nothing of a blog. Why, V, Why??
I couldn’t bear to look at RSM’s Flickr photos after clawing my eyes out from her vapid writing, but I have a lot of time on my hands today and look! She says it’s all about her tattoo. Girl, please. She’s one step away from internet porn.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/rsmommy/392066446/
Do you do your makeup and hair before you “model” for yourself, RSM? Is that what you do all day?
SO TRUE, Lila!
@39
I thought the little hover box on that picture was going to make note of the giant herpe moles on her back.
But no…
@41
Someone called them “beauty marks” in the comments. Funny name for moles, huh?
“You all take blogs and blogging and your little blogbuddies way too seriously. Fat kids NEED public ridicule to build up their character and whorish moms NEED to be made to feel insecure so they continue to be anorexic and donate their groceries to bums. You call it mean spirited, I call it public service.” - Leafie
Thank fucking god, I couldn’t agree more. V attacks a shitty blog and all the fan-tards flock over … all four of them. V, when can we get back to the entertaining stuff, I can only laugh at stupid people for so long before it becomes repetitive and the counter-arguments only serve to prove the point.
@14
Almost getting sued != almost being successfully sued
What are you? The Rosie O’Donnell of the blogosphere? lol.
I think the feminist bloggers are way more tiresome than the mommy bloggers.
@27 - YES, please fix the horrible evilness. If you’re loosing readers it’s because your site appears as BLANK now in Safari.
I have never liked that self-serving blog, especially last year when she talked on and on about how awful her husband was and how he had asked her not to complain about him on the internet but she said “fuck it” and did it anyway because the internet was SO IMPORTANT TO HER.
I feel sorry for all these mommyblogger’s families. They sure have their priorities screwed up. There’s one right now who couldn’t be bothered to find a house so the whole family moved in with her parents. Never fear, she still has internet, though!
Rockstar Mommy claims to not want attention, yet continues to post pictures that scream, “Look at me!” and then stay online all day to make sure the comments increase. Who is taking care of all these kids while their mothers whore to the masses all day?
This is one of the saddest displays of self-righteous envy I’ve seen in a long time. Truly pathetic, all of you. For someone you say you dislike so much, not only do you know way too much about her, but you just can’t stop talking about it. Two posts from V on someone who is so beneath her, both as a blogger and a person, (and we know this because she made absolutely sure to let us know because God forbid anyone was unclear on that. Funny how the people who act the toughest always do the most defending), and dozens of comments from people who just can’t wait to have their opinions heard on such a “nobody”.
If a person dislikes something, they avoid it by nature. When someone envies something, they obsess over it and respond to it with anger, bitterness, insults, and hatred. Just like all of you are here doing. You just have to let her know what your opinion is of her because that will really put her in her place, because your opinion matters that much. If you didn’t like her, or any of these other people that you rip to shreds, they wouldn’t mean anything to you. They wouldn’t be worth your time. Yet, here you are, full of hatred and repugnance. You’re reading her blog, you’re going through her photos, you’re obsessing over her. Still, we’re supposed to believe that she means that little to you.
When someone dislikes something, it’s a simple clash of interest. When someone hates something, it’s because they’re projecting their own insecurities about themselves onto others who are perceived to be better in that area.
Maybe it’s her looks or the attention she gets. Maybe it’s that she seems to have a nice life while the rest of have to suffer through your sad existences. Maybe it’s the that she’s not the drama queen and attention whore you’re trying to paint her out to be (otherwise, she would have ran around the internet crying about it) and took the high road which, in turn, made all of you the drama queen, hypocritical bitches. Maybe it’s the fact that you can’t feel good about yourselves unless you’re stepping all over others. Or maybe it’s simply that you need everyone else to be as miserable as you all so obviously are.
The rest of us who are secure and happy with ourselves do not care to read the rest of your inadequacies with yourselves, and we definitely don’t care to read some random blogger. You are all extremely transparent. A bunch of ex-high-school rejects, still sitting at the loser table making fun of the pretty girls. How very sad you all are. Drama queens who spend their time bashing people in internet forums. Instead of telling other people how they should be spending their time and living their lives and working on their marriages and running their websites, maybe you should all try improving yourselves. People like rock star mommy aren’t effecting the world negatively; you are.
And yet, you will deny and defend with more hatred and insults and claim to be so above all this, because that’s what you people do, and yet, here you are. Get lives. Please.
Hopefully V will stop discrediting herself with such drivel and get back to discussing real issues. Otherwise, I will no longer be reading. I’m sure I’m not alone. You drama queens will surely stick around, though, no doubt.
I hope the JK stands for just kidding because that was the most self-righteous douchebaggy post I’ve ever read on here.
I hate pedophiles. By your logic this because I want to assfuck 4 year olds and am jealous that I can’t. Good thinking there, stud pie.
I put the odds at 95 percent that that was our “rockstar” friend in the flesh.
Hi Jk (RSM),
You make some good points. Everyone should work on improving themselves, but the rest of your argument doesn’t hold any water. You can’t make sweeping statements like that - do you really believe that everyone who has responded here or has agreed with VA is unhappy with their life? I’m fine. Sure I’m being negative, but so what? You cannot truly believe that it isn’t human nature to discuss these things. It isn’t the first time it will happen and it won’t be the last. Let me make it clear: I am NOT envious of RSM. I’m not jealous of her looks because I’ve got my own. I’m not jealous of her writing because what she writes doesn’t really count as writing. I don’t envy her marriage because I’m married to a guy I respect and love and who is my best friend - someone that I would NEVER, EVER trash or insult on the internet. I’m not envious of her children, either. And I’m not envious of her life overall. Why on earth would anyone be? She’s clearly deeply insecure and unhappy if she has to post pictures of herself and write certain things so as to get people - strangers - to comment on her looks, her rack, how great she is. A lot of people do that and I’m just not sure how anyone can’t see it for what it is - insecurity and unhappiness. People truly happy with him or herself don’t need to post pictures as much as she does, they don’t need to spend all day primping and preening so they can have more to post and they don’t need 150 comments on how great they are. It’s just really sad, in my opinion, and not just RSM. I’m sad for anyone who has to do that, to rely on complete bullshit compliments from internet strangers to feel a sense of accomplishment.
So why am I here, right? Why am I reading her if I don’t like her and why did I look at her pictures? Same reason everyone else has done it - it’s there. It was pointed out to everyone who read VA’s post, links were provided. Of course everyone will look at it. And though I’m sure there would be jerks who would still comment negatively if VA was completely wrong about it, she’s not wrong. RSM is, from what I can see and from what she chooses to share with the internet community, a vain, shallow woman who needs attention to validate herself. I would submit that it’s her that’s the one who is unhappy, not the people who are commenting negatively. But I don’t know her personally and I can’t make that assumption overall. Based on what she has chosen to share with the internet, however, that’s what I see. And I’m tuned in not because I care about RSM or that I’m jealous, I’ve just got some time on my hands and this is pretty interesting in a sociological and psychological sense.
It is very much like the old saw: the people who are the most wealthy don’t need to say it to the world. Those who are the most intelligent don’t need to say so. The same goes for beauty - those who are the most secure about the way they look don’t have to scream “look at me!” They don’t have to because it’s not important to them, it’s not what defines them. And you have to admit that that makes sense.
The beauty of the internet is that we can express ourselves the way we want to be perceived. Unlike life, which is a compilation of everything, we get to choose to play up or down certain things about ourselves on the internet. Everyone has different motivations. If anyone sees RSM as an insufferable douchebag, she brought it on herself. It really doesn’t matter if everyone who comments negatively is a hateful person. Even if you really believe that, it’s obvious that most of what is being written is true. RSM is a shallow, insecure narcissist. What else can a person conclude after reading her and browsing her photos? Some folks may be doing it more negatively than others, but none of it is wrong. RSM can present herself however she wants to and she has chosen to rely on her looks and fishing-type writing for validation. I realize that I’m biased and choose to surround myself with those who would rather present themselves intelligently, but I don’t think any of this is off-base.
Do any of these attention whores post pictures taken by anyone else? That’s what makes me laugh. You can see the arm extended out in every picture. It’s embarrassing to see so many people “posing” for themselves! Oh, let me pull my blouse down and expose my cleavage but make it look accidental while holding out my arm and taking my picture and looking natural like I’m not posing. It’s hilarious and entertaining. Why wouldn’t anyone stop and watch the train wreck?
“The single thing my reader’s hate most of all is when I deviate from my “contrived and boring” opinions to speculate on how long it’s going to take your husband to dump you for another child bride. You see, they care even less about you than I do and posts like these are torture for them. The fact of the matter is that my site didn’t really start getting popular until I stopped talking about mommy bloggers. ”
so, why go back to it now?
My dogs are growling at all of you…
I wish they were bears.
humans may be “smarter” than bears, but unless you’re quite well prepared… they’ll just fucking eat you. Especially if they’re uranium toothed bears…. I wanna videotape ya’ll being eaten by uranium toothed bears.
That would be like heaven…
I hope you all go to the zoo tomorrow and throw yourselves at the polar bears or kodiaks or grizzlies…. just feed yourselves to the fuckin’ bears…
and video tape it.
Fuck you…. good night, and good luck.
Elegantly stated, E7.
Thank you sir/mam…
people need to be called on their crap here and there. I’m sure you’ve seen certain people. people who’s very presence is embarrassing and sad. why? because no one called them on their delusions. no one told them “no, your art is pretty bad” or “you dress like an 80’s hooker”- and thus everyone feels sorry for them, but doesn’t feel it’s their responsibility to clue them into reality.
I think its healthy to occasionally rip into people. its either that or continue to let them unknowing be a joke. its pretty easy to be “nice” and just let things slide. but some people really should know that their music is bad. their art is terrible they can’t cook. the list goes on. you can’t fix it if you think it works.
Very well said @ 51. Pretty much sums it all up. Especially calling her out on her own comment! It was very obvious.
Meh, boring. Get back to your normal shit. Could care less about some loser internet chick.
http://violentacres.blogspot.com/ Seems like someone made an enemy, V. I guess the mommy bloggers are enforce. I love a good fight. I brought the popcorn.. Gonna be a good showww…
IN A PERFECT WORLD…
BEARS WOULD EAT YOU ALL!
ahhhh.. when sorostitutes and frat fucks unite..
breeding lindsay lohan’s and paris hiltons since the days of prohibition
i am just wondering why shes 26, and already married with 2 kids. i think RSM is the one who needs a fucking life outside of procreating too young and cooking dinner for a husband who is clearly fucking someone else. what a moron. shes the kind of chick who needs to be sterilized. people like her and that useless excuse for a human welfare mother from live journal. ick.