Comments on: VA: What To Do About a Fat Spouse http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/ violentacres.com feedback site Tue, 07 Feb 2012 11:05:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Matilda Tuesday http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-19749 Matilda Tuesday Mon, 07 Sep 2009 01:20:48 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-19749 The old myfatspouse.com disappeared in January. Most of the regulars moved to a new site. Check it out at www.myfatspouse.org! The old myfatspouse.com disappeared in January. Most of the regulars moved to a new site. Check it out at http://www.myfatspouse.org!

]]> By: samantha http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-19730 samantha Tue, 04 Aug 2009 10:00:48 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-19730 I have the same problem with my husband.. his stomach is so big he looks pregnant, and it makes me feel sick, and my skin crawls when he touches me now. I have no answers for you, I have tried everything in the last 10 years.... I am stuck for the rest of my entire life with a wonderful man, that doesnt attract me sexually anymore, its so sad.. because even though I love him I am not sexually attracted to him anymore and I have to have sex with him because I am his wife..... Dont worry about asking for advise - dont waste your time.. people will judge you hence some of the replies. I have the same problem with my husband.. his stomach is so big he looks pregnant, and it makes me feel sick, and my skin crawls when he touches me now.

I have no answers for you, I have tried everything in the last 10 years….

I am stuck for the rest of my entire life with a wonderful man, that doesnt attract me sexually anymore, its so sad.. because even though I love him I am not sexually attracted to him anymore and I have to have sex with him because I am his wife…..

Dont worry about asking for advise - dont waste your time.. people will judge you hence some of the replies.

]]> By: Huh? http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-19665 Huh? Mon, 06 Jul 2009 15:29:07 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-19665 Excerpts: Chris asked me last night at the bar, “How do I tell Stacy she needs to lose weight?” ... In fact, anyone who has the audacity to ask me ridiculous fucking questions like, ‘How can I tell my girlfriend she physically repulses me without hurting her feelings’ is a grade A, 100%, fucking idiot. ------------------------------------ But, according to your own words, that's not what he asked, so what's up with the temper tantrum, and b****ing fest? Excerpts:

Chris asked me last night at the bar, “How do I tell Stacy she needs to lose weight?”

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In fact, anyone who has the audacity to ask me ridiculous fucking questions like, ‘How can I tell my girlfriend she physically repulses me without hurting her feelings’ is a grade A, 100%, fucking idiot.

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But, according to your own words, that’s not what he asked, so what’s up with the temper tantrum, and b****ing fest?

]]> By: u's r pathetic http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-10671 u's r pathetic Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:19:42 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-10671 i really belive u all need to grow up, everyone has flaws. some in your face, some not. would you rather be with some one who is sexy and will take u for all ur worth then leave u with nothing, or some one who will appreciate you as you are and do right by you no matter what?? wheres the website about tht? heres what u r, selfish, pathetic, shallow and mean, so wot makes any of u think u deserve beter than wot uv got, cos it doesnt seem like you even deserve tht. have a look at yourself before you judge others, or jst plain out stop judging, its nt our place 2 i really belive u all need to grow up, everyone has flaws. some in your face, some not. would you rather be with some one who is sexy and will take u for all ur worth then leave u with nothing, or some one who will appreciate you as you are and do right by you no matter what?? wheres the website about tht? heres what u r, selfish, pathetic, shallow and mean, so wot makes any of u think u deserve beter than wot uv got, cos it doesnt seem like you even deserve tht. have a look at yourself before you judge others, or jst plain out stop judging, its nt our place 2

]]> By: Alex Woodby http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-9135 Alex Woodby Tue, 22 Jan 2008 16:35:51 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-9135 Went to my fat spouse site looking for more "gems" of human cruelty. In the "soft approach" article on front page, actually a very sweet approach. ...I think we need to change some things about how we are living, and I’d like your help figuring out what changes we can make. I’ve got some ideas, if you’d be willing to listen: “I think we both need to change what we’re eating. The fast food is convenient, but it’s killing us slowly. I’m willing to do more around the house so that we can make time to eat healthier.” (Dietary habits are key to weight loss) ------- Went to my fat spouse site looking for more “gems” of human cruelty. In the “soft approach” article on front page, actually a very sweet approach.

…I think we need to change some things about how we are living, and I’d like your help figuring out what changes we can make. I’ve got some ideas, if you’d be willing to listen: “I think we both need to change what we’re eating. The fast food is convenient, but it’s killing us slowly. I’m willing to do more around the house so that we can make time to eat healthier.” (Dietary habits are key to weight loss)
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]]> By: zeitgeist http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-7495 zeitgeist Thu, 22 Nov 2007 05:12:10 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-7495 Great! Really! Great! Really!

]]> By: fatsuperman http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-7492 fatsuperman Thu, 22 Nov 2007 04:17:00 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-7492 Hey there is a whole website for this kind of thing www.myfatspouse.com its actually pretty solid...people don't get called shallow but "dump the fat whale" stuff is discouraged too. Real people in this real situation. Before you start the SPAM complaints look at it! They aren't selling anything its just a support group. The forum is where the action is. Hey there is a whole website for this kind of thing

http://www.myfatspouse.com

its actually pretty solid…people don’t get called shallow but “dump the fat whale” stuff is discouraged too. Real people in this real situation.

Before you start the SPAM complaints look at it! They aren’t selling anything its just a support group. The forum is where the action is.

]]> By: Billychic http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-6172 Billychic Tue, 16 Oct 2007 17:18:08 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-6172 This was just absolutely brilliant...and 100% correct. Excellent post. This was just absolutely brilliant…and 100% correct. Excellent post.

]]> By: new tokyo http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-5298 new tokyo Tue, 14 Aug 2007 05:14:48 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-5298 He ain't gonna do that. they've got a hyperbolic chamber or whatever the fudge that shit is. Also, the grazing comes with the territory, no? He ain’t gonna do that. they’ve got a hyperbolic chamber or whatever the fudge that shit is. Also, the grazing comes with the territory, no?

]]> By: Viola http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-5295 Viola Tue, 14 Aug 2007 03:10:02 +0000 http://www.violentacrestalk.com/2007/06/va-what-to-do-about-a-fat-spouse/#comment-5295 So leave her. So leave her.

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