VA: What To Do About a Fat Spouse
Jun 25th, 2007
“Can I ask your advice about something?” Chris asked me last night at the bar, “How do I tell Stacy she needs to lose weight?”
Over the years, I’ve learned that […]
Original post: What To Do About a Fat Spouse


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I tell my wife that she looks like a beached whale and she admits it. But she still grazes and fails to exercise. I’ve more or less given up.
So leave her.
He ain’t gonna do that. they’ve got a hyperbolic chamber or whatever the fudge that shit is. Also, the grazing comes with the territory, no?
This was just absolutely brilliant…and 100% correct. Excellent post.
Hey there is a whole website for this kind of thing
http://www.myfatspouse.com
its actually pretty solid…people don’t get called shallow but “dump the fat whale” stuff is discouraged too. Real people in this real situation.
Before you start the SPAM complaints look at it! They aren’t selling anything its just a support group. The forum is where the action is.
Great! Really!
Went to my fat spouse site looking for more “gems” of human cruelty. In the “soft approach” article on front page, actually a very sweet approach.
…I think we need to change some things about how we are living, and I’d like your help figuring out what changes we can make. I’ve got some ideas, if you’d be willing to listen: “I think we both need to change what we’re eating. The fast food is convenient, but it’s killing us slowly. I’m willing to do more around the house so that we can make time to eat healthier.” (Dietary habits are key to weight loss)
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i really belive u all need to grow up, everyone has flaws. some in your face, some not. would you rather be with some one who is sexy and will take u for all ur worth then leave u with nothing, or some one who will appreciate you as you are and do right by you no matter what?? wheres the website about tht? heres what u r, selfish, pathetic, shallow and mean, so wot makes any of u think u deserve beter than wot uv got, cos it doesnt seem like you even deserve tht. have a look at yourself before you judge others, or jst plain out stop judging, its nt our place 2
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Chris asked me last night at the bar, “How do I tell Stacy she needs to lose weight?”
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In fact, anyone who has the audacity to ask me ridiculous fucking questions like, ‘How can I tell my girlfriend she physically repulses me without hurting her feelings’ is a grade A, 100%, fucking idiot.
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But, according to your own words, that’s not what he asked, so what’s up with the temper tantrum, and b****ing fest?
I have the same problem with my husband.. his stomach is so big he looks pregnant, and it makes me feel sick, and my skin crawls when he touches me now.
I have no answers for you, I have tried everything in the last 10 years….
I am stuck for the rest of my entire life with a wonderful man, that doesnt attract me sexually anymore, its so sad.. because even though I love him I am not sexually attracted to him anymore and I have to have sex with him because I am his wife…..
Dont worry about asking for advise - dont waste your time.. people will judge you hence some of the replies.
The old myfatspouse.com disappeared in January. Most of the regulars moved to a new site. Check it out at http://www.myfatspouse.org!