so people should stop assuming that his motivation for his actions are that he’s self-centered and wants to be validated. that’s what he’s feeling, but people should look deeper, to try to find a reason for being self-centered. it’s not human nature.

But, as far as plates and scars on knuckles, I can tell you as a someone whose career is working with “troubled teens” in programs, schools, treatment centers etc. that things like that CAN (not always, but can) be skewed and biased. Kids whose life has included abuse, abandonment and neglect will often interpret things very differently. For example: you are doing the dishes I bring some more over and the top two plates slip off the top of the stack land on your hands and break. A kid already abused will often believe that that I did it on purpose and it was intentional abuse.

I am not saying that V didn’t have dishes broken on her hands, but I have also seen innocent occurrences interpreted as abusive because of real abuses in other aspects of the kids life. The most damaging part of physical abuse is the psychological way it fucks up the way you interpret peoples actions for the rest of your life.

This starts to resemble of Life Of Brian, where Brian was running from Romans and ended up on a podium. You know, where he started to talk something like “There was man with two sons…” and audience was asking questions “Oh, and what were their names?”

Who cares if V is a man, a woman, an androgyne, an alien or a bot written by 23 Polish nerds?

It’s the stories she tells, not the fine details. The details are irrelevant to the point.

I understand (or overstand) the point, no matter what color she writes her wallpapers were at the time.