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Original post: The Best/Worst Summer of my Life
V said: “Only my Mother would show up to a tennis lesson in a tight tank top, short shorts, and a pair of fucking high heels. These thoughts would be fleeting, of course. After all, I had to run to the clubhouse and meet my men.”
Hey V, most women end up acting/looking just like their mothers, and although (above) you are criticizing your mother, your were not falling far from the tree: walking to the pool wearing a bikini, with your head high and loving the boy’s attention.
If embarrassment made you want to be the opposite of your mom, your summer did not go wasted
You don’t see the difference between wearing high heels to tennis lessons and a bathing suit to a swimming pool? The point wasn’t that she was dressing sexy, it was that she was embarrassingly inappropriate.
That seemed obvious to me (and I expect to the majority of readers).
It’s really not this intricate… oh the webs they weave.
@ aguardiente
There is a very great deal of difference between a 14 year old becoming self-confident enough to wear a bikini and a mother dressing like a slut in order to get laid.
Obviously V’s mother was the slut - not V.
/end @ aguardiente/
The more I read about V’s mother the more I hate her and the pain she deliberarly put V through. I’m really having trouble getting my head around how or why a mother would label her daughter a slut in front of stangers.
I think if I were V I would have murdered that bitch in ice cold blood - with intention and fore-thought.
I can understand that most of you dislike V a lot, however comparing a 14 year old to a 34 year old is a bit of a stretch.
V obviously had no experience as far as relationships with boys goes, was rather antagonized by the girls around her, so it’s perfectly normal to seek the attention of those boys who fell all over themselves to please her.
Sure, she didn’t think of the consequences like we do, however I’m assuming none of us is 14 anymore.
V’s mom should have told her to be more careful, but not by humiliating her in front of all those strangers. As far as I see it, she was too busy being envious of her, though.
V’s mother told her not to wear a one piece to show off her body, then called her loose because boys were giving her the attention her mother thought she should be getting…
Geez.
Is it not apparent to everyone that V’s mother was just plain jealous that her daughter was getting the attention from Rob that she was craving herself? Her mother wanted her to show off her body because she had a daughter who wasn’t overweight. V’s embarrassment over her body no doubt angered her mother, who we’ve come to learn is just the freaking queen of inappropriate. I bet today she’d be one of the moms who urge their 16-17 year old daughter to get breast implants because it will no doubt ‘boost her self esteem’. Apparently V’s mother feels no hesitation in treating her daughter like her biggest opponent. And I’m starting to think mommy never graduated out of the high school mentality, judging by her outright jealousy over her daughter’s suitors. It rings all too ’sophomore year of high school’ in my mind the way she degraded her daughter in front of everyone. And while Rob was just trying to be polite when he asked mom if he could take V out, that’s when the shit hit the fan. Otherwise her mother would never have known…she’d have been too busy whoring herself on the tennis court. I just don’t understand the world anymore. We’re all going to Hell.
Maybe it was that intricate… these stories give me the spins.
If V fucked Rob she would have been the envy of every harpy there. That’s probably all her mom wanted.
And people wonder why children sometimes kill their parents…..
My mother was kind, and went out of her way to be as normal and appropriate around my friends, and STILL I was embarrassed by her. I can’t imagine how I would have felt had she gone out of her way like V’s mother did to humiliate her.
@Yuvu, Richbh and Vera,
I don’t dislike V actually I’m addicted to her writings and have liked most of her postings - so with that said, I’m not attacking her, I’m simply saying “maybe this nightmare summer turned her into the opposite of her mother”.
The point of comparison is not WHAT they were wearing but WHY they were wearing it -”to attract male attention”.
By now if have read her postings you noticed her attacks on female attention hunger and as humiliating as this summer was to her, maybe this was the decisive point to be different than her mom. I wish all girls at 14 years old could turn away from the attention cravings that are inflicting most women around us.
I love reading V’s stuff, and I am a right wing male….
I am not one to usually post comments, and quite frankly don’t know why i am doing so. But I shall throw in my two sense.
As for V becoming dangeriously close to her mother, it sounds as if in a sense this is what her mother wanted. Her supposed friends in the begining seem just like her mother in some ways, and her mother of course approved of them, Im not an expert on the intricate social working of any female, but it seems like her mom and her “freinds” formed little competitive groups of overwhelming arrongant self confidence that would obsess and compete over one man. The girls making fun of the boys at the pool and obsessing over the 18 year old, and her mom showing over to her older freinds that she could turn this guys head with what she was wearing. V as it seemed got bored of the routine with the girls and broke off from the group.
Even though she was enjoying the attantion of the boys, she was not attempting show up the other girls (like her mother). As for enjoying being around “her men” I did not know V, but there is a reason why a parent, should be watching what their children wear, as far as im concerned it was enjoying some attention, but not very many 14 year olds are equiped mentally to handle that situation.
The other thing, where i come from I know very few fellow guys that pressure a woman 4 years younger then him at age 18 have the best of intentions, A 18 year waiting till a 14 year old is by herself and saying she “can” go out with him, and then when she said no, pressuring her more to do so. That could of have turned out bad.
Her mother and Vs “freinds” of course didn’t like V leaving their little inter-competition group and getting the attention of the one they were obsessing over, so naturally they did what they could to cut her down to make themselves feel better for being “outdone” as they see it. This may all seem small minded but keep in mind so were they.
I do apologize if my writing seems a bit random, I have ADHD and I would have to proofread and edit what i typed for it to appear cohearent and I don’t have that kinda time…heheh.
I had a friend growing up who’s father sounds exactly like V’s mother. Eventually she had to move in with me and my family because it got so bad…I’ll never understand how some parents can be so terrible to thier children.
Sigh, I can all too well understand the feeling of being accused of “whoring around” for simply being in the presence of males.
Plain and simple… V’s mother was (is?) an angry, insecure bitch who tried to make sure her daughter felt the same self-hatred.
“Plain and simple… V’s mother was (is?) an angry, insecure bitch who tried to make sure her daughter felt the same self-hatred.”
I’m inclined to think this was true, and I’m truly sad to say that she was successful.