VA: Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Because They’re Creeps
Nov 23rd, 2008
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By: V
Last night, my Husband and I attended a charity dinner. I’m not exactly sure what disease or malady this dinner was fighting to cure, but I assumed it some […]
Original post: Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Because They’re Creeps
1)Tiffany sounds like a cunt,and I hope Brian dumped her.
2)The whole part about “nice guys” is beyond true.
I suddenly realized that violentacres.com is absolute crap, that V has no discernible personality to speak of, and that the entire human race no longer deserves to exist… if it ever did. Nice guys… bad boys… dumb fucks… hot chicks… stupid bitches… blah… blah… blah…
Right now, I’m actually a bit horny for the end of the world.
Your Truly,
~em~
idk em, she has a few gems…
anyway, I was going to post a comment, but you made me realize how dumb it was. Thank you.
I agree with this so much. I seem to attract the “nice guys,” loosely translated into really creepy/stalker/mightbeaserialkiller type person. When I am out I will usually talk to just about anyone. I love talking to people and usually have some of my most interesting conversations with complete strangers. However, there has been numerous occasions where I ended up talking to some freak who got the wrong impression, followed me around the entire night and told everyone he came into contact with he was my boyfriend.
No thanks.
Dear Jodie,
You may be too stupid to realize that you lead men on, and then like most women (that I’m ashamed to claim as my own gender) you will go on babbling about how “awful” it is that the man you tricked into liking you is stalking you. Most women are pathetic attention whores who seem to get off on leading men astray. I have never done that to a man, and I refuse to. Maybe you and most other women should grow the f–k up and stop treating men like crap or trying to mess with their heads. They’ll surely mess with yours back and become the “stalkers” you love to talk about. Granted, there are crazy guys out there. I know I’ve met some and handled them accordingly. But most guys aren’t that bad. Most women, sadly, are…and are the cause of their own problems 90% of the time.
Michelle.
Jodie, those aren’t “nice” guys, they’re “losers,” “creeps,” and “maniacs.” Let’s set it right; call them for who and what they are. Men might move between the groups, depending on age or situation, but generally once they fall in that hole, whatever hole it is, they have a hell of a hard time crawling out. It’s their responsibility…or not.
It’s better for men not to be “nice guys” but “good guys”: responsible, respectful, confident, outgoing, active, and forthright, clear, and rational in their beliefs, actions, and thoughts towards themselves and others. Stop being “nice.” “Nice” means nothing when it has nothing else to be attached to. And even then, you ought not be “nice” but “good,” “better,” or “best.” Nothing about “nice.” If you have an inkling of what you have and what you’re capable of, you know where you can go, what you can do, who you can be, and who you can meet. People can move up or down, more or less than they ever started.
Guys should have goals, have dreams, have some place to go, and by all means, all brains get them and get there. For a man to fail reaching his goals (or never to have goals), his dreams, and his destination leaves him basically feeling a failure in life. (And really, this applies to women, men, children, and everyone who can call themselves human. Our fundamental needs and thoughts are the same, though desires, drives, and biology might prioritize them differently.) Women can sense that. Men can sense it too. And don’t let anyone think that just women are the just judges. Men judge each other, fight, and compete to establish the hierarchy. Worse, the hierarchy changes, often, rapidly, unpredictably. For every “alpha male” out there, there’s another one who’s better in some important area. Smarter, better looking, wittier, richer, better on his feet, stronger, or a good con artist. A confident, good guy knows how to hold his own and move up and in and out of situations as need be. That’s how you hold a woman, and move from “nice guy” to “good guy.” Don’t be a chauvinist, don’t be a goddamn slob, and don’t be a jackass, jerk, turd, or drunkard. The world has too many. You are her man. Her partner, her friend, her lover, her equal. Act like it.