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	<title>Comments on: VA: It’s Good to Be Judgmental</title>
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		<title>By: reiven</title>
		<link>http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-it%e2%80%99s-good-to-be-judgmental/#comment-9486</link>
		<dc:creator>reiven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 04:48:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>looks like Mini V 

SNM be yourself

If your mom and dad gave you their property can you really brag about owning a house in a nice area that you didn't pay for?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>looks like Mini V </p>
<p>SNM be yourself</p>
<p>If your mom and dad gave you their property can you really brag about owning a house in a nice area that you didn&#8217;t pay for?</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew</title>
		<link>http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-it%e2%80%99s-good-to-be-judgmental/#comment-9416</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2008 01:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Recently I had a debate with some friends about the infestation of gold digging whores who come to South Florida (that’s where I live) looking for rich old men to support them.....I’m not accepting of it at all. I think it’s fucking vile that these sluts come here from wherever and prey on lonely, incredibly stupid and delusional men in order to take their cash."

If there are lonely, incredibly stupid and delusional men that are falling for that then they got what they deserved, and quite frankly I see nothing wrong with that.  It isn't like they are robbing the men at gunpoint on the street corner, and I don't see a lot of cases of the women being sued for fraud, so it looks like the men are the problem here, not the women.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Recently I had a debate with some friends about the infestation of gold digging whores who come to South Florida (that’s where I live) looking for rich old men to support them&#8230;..I’m not accepting of it at all. I think it’s fucking vile that these sluts come here from wherever and prey on lonely, incredibly stupid and delusional men in order to take their cash.&#8221;</p>
<p>If there are lonely, incredibly stupid and delusional men that are falling for that then they got what they deserved, and quite frankly I see nothing wrong with that.  It isn&#8217;t like they are robbing the men at gunpoint on the street corner, and I don&#8217;t see a lot of cases of the women being sued for fraud, so it looks like the men are the problem here, not the women.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz</title>
		<link>http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-it%e2%80%99s-good-to-be-judgmental/#comment-9411</link>
		<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 22:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey everyone look at me!!!!! I gots a comment yo!

I like widelawns, when she writes like widelawns. As soon as I started reading VA which was after I had been reading WL for about a year, I realized where the self entitled posts a WL where coming from. She was trying to use VA's formula to get herself some controversy. All of a sudden her posts went from funny, original, cool stories about her family and people around her to "I own property, I am in shape, I eat right, bla bla bla" Correct me if I'm wrong but back when WL was about rich, snobby assholes in S. Florida, she just to spend whole paragraphs talking about food. Yeah, the food might have been healthy, but she made it seem like she she ate tons of it, hell she went to an important event one day just so she could eat what they had there (if you are a reader you will also remember that she went so far as to buy an expensive suit, only to return it the next day just so she could attend). I, being the judgmental bitch that I am, thought she was fat all along!!! I laughed my ass off the other day when she said she had made Cheesesteaks from scratch!!!!! Are you fucking kidding me oh and then she stopped because she felt that she was eating like an asshole!!! hahahahaha please you are choking yourself you are so full of shit. How about the daily trips to DQ when your husband fell ill, did you stop yourself then too and say I'm eating like a fucking asshole!!!! 

Oh and introducing yourself like as W, are you kidding???
What ever happened to Subservient No More? Oh W is so much cooler isn't it. 

Do as all a favor and start being Subservient No More again, let Violent Acres be Violent Acres, she does a fucking good job at it, and you do a pretty good one being Wide lawns. Enough with the bullshit now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey everyone look at me!!!!! I gots a comment yo!</p>
<p>I like widelawns, when she writes like widelawns. As soon as I started reading VA which was after I had been reading WL for about a year, I realized where the self entitled posts a WL where coming from. She was trying to use VA&#8217;s formula to get herself some controversy. All of a sudden her posts went from funny, original, cool stories about her family and people around her to &#8220;I own property, I am in shape, I eat right, bla bla bla&#8221; Correct me if I&#8217;m wrong but back when WL was about rich, snobby assholes in S. Florida, she just to spend whole paragraphs talking about food. Yeah, the food might have been healthy, but she made it seem like she she ate tons of it, hell she went to an important event one day just so she could eat what they had there (if you are a reader you will also remember that she went so far as to buy an expensive suit, only to return it the next day just so she could attend). I, being the judgmental bitch that I am, thought she was fat all along!!! I laughed my ass off the other day when she said she had made Cheesesteaks from scratch!!!!! Are you fucking kidding me oh and then she stopped because she felt that she was eating like an asshole!!! hahahahaha please you are choking yourself you are so full of shit. How about the daily trips to DQ when your husband fell ill, did you stop yourself then too and say I&#8217;m eating like a fucking asshole!!!! </p>
<p>Oh and introducing yourself like as W, are you kidding???<br />
What ever happened to Subservient No More? Oh W is so much cooler isn&#8217;t it. </p>
<p>Do as all a favor and start being Subservient No More again, let Violent Acres be Violent Acres, she does a fucking good job at it, and you do a pretty good one being Wide lawns. Enough with the bullshit now.</p>
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		<title>By: d</title>
		<link>http://www.violentacrestalk.com/va-it%e2%80%99s-good-to-be-judgmental/#comment-9410</link>
		<dc:creator>d</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 21:41:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh, ps:

do you really think doddering old fools think young hot girls want to fuck them?  do you think they're not expecting to be paying for it?

they'd have to be pretty fucking stupid, and you don't stay rich into your golden years if you're pretty fucking stupid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh, ps:</p>
<p>do you really think doddering old fools think young hot girls want to fuck them?  do you think they&#8217;re not expecting to be paying for it?</p>
<p>they&#8217;d have to be pretty fucking stupid, and you don&#8217;t stay rich into your golden years if you&#8217;re pretty fucking stupid.</p>
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		<title>By: d</title>
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		<dc:creator>d</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 21:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you can be as judgmental as you want to in private.  nobody cares.

if you actually want to change opinions or express an important idea, offending people is not the way to go.

while it is certainly acceptable to talk about your values, imperiously raining abuse from your impossibly high horse just makes you look like a bitch.  a bitch who feels that her 'right' to say whatever she wants should not be fettered by petty notions like civility.

if you insult people, they will not be inclined to listen to you.  duh.  all you are to them is a hateful cunt who wants to make them feel bad.  they probably assume you do it to feel superior.

you want to change minds?  keep it polite and USEFUL, or stfu.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you can be as judgmental as you want to in private.  nobody cares.</p>
<p>if you actually want to change opinions or express an important idea, offending people is not the way to go.</p>
<p>while it is certainly acceptable to talk about your values, imperiously raining abuse from your impossibly high horse just makes you look like a bitch.  a bitch who feels that her &#8216;right&#8217; to say whatever she wants should not be fettered by petty notions like civility.</p>
<p>if you insult people, they will not be inclined to listen to you.  duh.  all you are to them is a hateful cunt who wants to make them feel bad.  they probably assume you do it to feel superior.</p>
<p>you want to change minds?  keep it polite and USEFUL, or stfu.</p>
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		<title>By: Jian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 21:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would call her judgmental, not because she has opinions and a value system, but because she thinks so highly of her opinions that she does not  bother to think about them with any wisdom. "ZOMG those slutty black women! DID YOU KNOW THEY HAVE BABIES OUT OF WEDLOCK??" Did you know, "W," that about 12% of black men aged 25-29, prime marrying age, are in prison? Did you ever consider the idea that a lack of black men means that there's a relative surplus of black women, and from a black man whose value has just shot up on the marriage market, that there's no reason to buy the cow if he can get the milk for free? But no! Clearly the reason is that black women are just sluts! And clearly, CLEARLY, the reason nobody talks about it isn't that most people don't give a flying fuck as long as those blacks keep to their own kind, but it's that in this PC atmosphere, we're just too scared of saying the truth! That if we just all went and TOLD those black girls to stop being so slutty, they'd stop! 

There's having thoughtful, honest opinions, and there's knee-jerk, simplistic reactions. You sound like the latter. You're judgmental. You're too quick and too eager to judge. I hope you don't decide to thank me for that one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would call her judgmental, not because she has opinions and a value system, but because she thinks so highly of her opinions that she does not  bother to think about them with any wisdom. &#8220;ZOMG those slutty black women! DID YOU KNOW THEY HAVE BABIES OUT OF WEDLOCK??&#8221; Did you know, &#8220;W,&#8221; that about 12% of black men aged 25-29, prime marrying age, are in prison? Did you ever consider the idea that a lack of black men means that there&#8217;s a relative surplus of black women, and from a black man whose value has just shot up on the marriage market, that there&#8217;s no reason to buy the cow if he can get the milk for free? But no! Clearly the reason is that black women are just sluts! And clearly, CLEARLY, the reason nobody talks about it isn&#8217;t that most people don&#8217;t give a flying fuck as long as those blacks keep to their own kind, but it&#8217;s that in this PC atmosphere, we&#8217;re just too scared of saying the truth! That if we just all went and TOLD those black girls to stop being so slutty, they&#8217;d stop! </p>
<p>There&#8217;s having thoughtful, honest opinions, and there&#8217;s knee-jerk, simplistic reactions. You sound like the latter. You&#8217;re judgmental. You&#8217;re too quick and too eager to judge. I hope you don&#8217;t decide to thank me for that one.</p>
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		<title>By: keronian</title>
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		<dc:creator>keronian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 20:15:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, I'm going to go out on a limb and actually speak to the content of the article.

I think there's a big difference between having a value system and being judgmental.  I see absolutely nothing wrong with condemning behaviors, actions, etc...  The line that gets crossed, that brings us over to "judgmental" is when we basically consider a person a worthless piece of shit with no chance of improving themselves or providing anything positive.

You can even point out examples of people that have screwed up their lives by their stupid behavior, showing them the consequences of those actions... But one should NEVER take it to a level where you berate a person for what they've done.

We should be trying to HELP people better themselves.  Yes, you can and should get in people's faces for stupid mistakes... But primarily so you can help them to not make those stupid mistakes again.

Big difference between judging an action and judging a person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, I&#8217;m going to go out on a limb and actually speak to the content of the article.</p>
<p>I think there&#8217;s a big difference between having a value system and being judgmental.  I see absolutely nothing wrong with condemning behaviors, actions, etc&#8230;  The line that gets crossed, that brings us over to &#8220;judgmental&#8221; is when we basically consider a person a worthless piece of shit with no chance of improving themselves or providing anything positive.</p>
<p>You can even point out examples of people that have screwed up their lives by their stupid behavior, showing them the consequences of those actions&#8230; But one should NEVER take it to a level where you berate a person for what they&#8217;ve done.</p>
<p>We should be trying to HELP people better themselves.  Yes, you can and should get in people&#8217;s faces for stupid mistakes&#8230; But primarily so you can help them to not make those stupid mistakes again.</p>
<p>Big difference between judging an action and judging a person.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 19:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a hard time staying interested in this article, which felt like a contrived attempt to be interesting by being controversial. Unfortunately, I have a hard time seeing controversy in the fact that the author insists on confusing the issues of being judgmental and having standards. 

You may think little of foreign sluts come to America to prey upon rich men doddering towards the finish line, but the unfortunate truth is that your opinions have a lot to do with why you're such an incredibly boring writer. Perhaps you shouldn't be so quick to trumpet them about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a hard time staying interested in this article, which felt like a contrived attempt to be interesting by being controversial. Unfortunately, I have a hard time seeing controversy in the fact that the author insists on confusing the issues of being judgmental and having standards. </p>
<p>You may think little of foreign sluts come to America to prey upon rich men doddering towards the finish line, but the unfortunate truth is that your opinions have a lot to do with why you&#8217;re such an incredibly boring writer. Perhaps you shouldn&#8217;t be so quick to trumpet them about.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 19:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is not that kids need a two parent home sanctified by marriage... they need love, attention and adults who are more interested in being parents than they are in being 'friends'.

The fact that '...trash breeders who can’t care for themselves or their trashy broods, tie up the courts with their trivialities and their constant need for cheap beer and disposable diapers [and] are repulsive and stupid" (to plagiarize #13-CJ)  are less likely to provide what those children need does not mean that only a married man and woman are the only ones capable of being decent parents.

I am judgmental as hell about bad parents... but it is parenting that is the issue, not whether or not the parents are married.

Before I was married, I had a hand in raising all sorts of kids who would otherwise have been tossed around the system.  The fact that I was not married never seemed to be an issue to them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is not that kids need a two parent home sanctified by marriage&#8230; they need love, attention and adults who are more interested in being parents than they are in being &#8216;friends&#8217;.</p>
<p>The fact that &#8216;&#8230;trash breeders who can’t care for themselves or their trashy broods, tie up the courts with their trivialities and their constant need for cheap beer and disposable diapers [and] are repulsive and stupid&#8221; (to plagiarize #13-CJ)  are less likely to provide what those children need does not mean that only a married man and woman are the only ones capable of being decent parents.</p>
<p>I am judgmental as hell about bad parents&#8230; but it is parenting that is the issue, not whether or not the parents are married.</p>
<p>Before I was married, I had a hand in raising all sorts of kids who would otherwise have been tossed around the system.  The fact that I was not married never seemed to be an issue to them.</p>
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		<title>By: Christina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 18:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Today's Experiment... Failed!"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Today&#8217;s Experiment&#8230; Failed!&#8221;</p>
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